Amanda and Michael are super awesome. They planned a Buffalo wedding from Georgia in half the time that most couples take to plan a wedding, and they pulled it off spectacularly. It was definitely a memorable day, and we feel so lucky to have been a part of it! All you have to do is spend about five minutes with Amanda and Michael, and you will just know that they are perfect for each other. There will be no question in your mind…trust me. :)
I got to start out the day with Amanda and the girls at her parents’ home – we had a great time – LOTS of laughter! (And, there was a kitty there, so I was in heaven. Look at her little kitty face!!!!) Amanda and Michael were kind enough to share some of their favorite wedding day memories, so I have (of course) included them throughout their post. Definitely make sure you read them, because some of their comments are guaranteed to make you laugh…one of the qualities we love most about this amazing couple.Ahhhhhhhhhhhh!!!! I love her!
Amanda: “During the previous 6 months we had spent so much time preparing, travelling back and forth to Buffalo from Georgia, and going to many appointments, which made it a very hectic and stressful time… but being able to spend quality time with my parents and my girls the morning of the wedding was amazing! All of the showers and parties and planning was done and it was time to relax and enjoy the day.”Michael: “The morning of. The dreaded morning. The mornings you hear about, told in hushed whispers, in dark alleys. *Dum DUM DUUUMMMMMM* Actually I had a fantastic time, so maybe I’m just in the minority, or, well, since bad news is more dramatic, perhaps people only talk about the crazy times. Well, my time was great, and while not “crazy” I’m still going to talk about it! My morning was filled with making sure all my guys had what they needed (sometimes I can get a little ‘OCD’ and everything has to be ‘perfect’). So in actuality I made sure my guys had everything needed probably about 20 times. After I was assured (had a beer/shot…or two….or three….um my wife isn’t going to see this is she? *gulp*), it was just chilling with good friends/family while waiting for our ride to the ceremony to marry the love of my life. Grooms: RELAX. CHILL. It’ll be okay, I promise.” Amanda: “Do-it-yourself projects were used during each and every part of our day, from the programs and bows at the ceremony to the decor and candy buffet at the reception. Seeing all of those individual efforts come together with the extra special touches we were able to afford with the money that was saved was literally priceless!” Amanda: “As I walked down the aisle with my father, I peered through tear-filled eyes, looking out at everyone that came to the ceremony to support us. Then I saw Michael and he came into focus as butterflies danced in my stomach. He looked so amazing in his grey tux (just one of the compromises that he made to make me happy) and lit me up inside!”
Michael: “Seeing Amanda walking down the aisle towards me (even though she was like 500 hours late…well, more like 20 minutes, but as the groom, it was a tad stressful…not to mention the priest getting on my case and grumbling). It’s a memory I remember vividly and always will. I don’t think I need to explain any further, tbh.”
Amanda: “The wedding ceremony was sprinkled with many special things. The involvement of our family and friends, especially my sister singing for us, made it a very memorable experience for me. My cousin took a candid video of her and I still tear up each time I watch it.” Michael: “The Trolley of DOOM – I bet after reading that I have you hooked and you really want to read the rest, right? Well, it was a trolley all right. Not so much DOOM though. Well, it was pink, so does that count? I digress. The trolley was fun as hell. I was regretting allowing Amanda to rent it, primarily due to it’s color (I felt we would be riding around in a Pepto Bismol bottle tbh), I mean, could I really say no? I’m sure at some point I would have had to say yes, under duress, I’m sure (Love ya babe!). When it showed up, it wasn’t that bad. Who hasn’t seen limousines cruising around? You see them and wonder, “Who’s in there?” “What’s their deal?” Well, with a trolley and a bunch of guys dressed up in schnazzy tuxes, it was self evident (I hope anyway). Even after the ceremony when Amanda and I were in the back, it was great, everyone could see us, waving at us, and giving us thumbs up signs. I would recommend a trolley to anyone looking for something different and fun (although make sure it’s not sweltering out, our wedding was on a really hot day and the AC in the trolley wasn’t the best. I could assume the reciprocal in winter).” After the ceremony, we headed on over to Kloc’s Grove for a fun-filled, party-tastic reception! A few quick portraits, first, though! ;) I am really loving the grey/pink/yellow color combo – awesome choice, Amanda! Michael: “I’M THE KING OF THE WORLD!!!! I always wanted to say that, and contextually it fits here. What I mean is, yep, the head table. Nothing says, “LOOK AT ME WEEEEEEE!!!” like the head table. Granted I had to share the spot light with my wife, but I guess, in this setting it was worth it ;). Seriously, it was sitting there looking out, remembering all the hard work we had to endure, and seeing it all come together. Seeing all the homemade favors and centerpieces, the cupcake stand, all the guests who showed up; family, friends, everyone. It was wonderful. I’d like to tell anyone who reads this for inspiration/ideas/whatever, when sitting at your table, just sit back, take a deep breath, and take a long hard look around. Take a high resolution mental picture of everything you see. Bask in the love that is present before you. Then bang your tankard on the table and demand your food! Why? Cause you can.” ;) Amanda: “Though it was sometimes hard to find each other and break away from what we were doing, I really enjoyed when Jenn and Ben pulled us away for pictures during the evening. Many times we were doing our own thing with our families and friends and these were times when I was able to reset and spend some “alone” time with my husband on our day.” Michael: “Photoshop this!! No assembly required!!! ‘What the hell is he talking about?’ you might be asking yourself. Well, I must say that’s a very good question. What I’m talking about is awesome. I want one. I want to be able to use it all the time. Oh, I didn’t tell you what it was? I’m sorry. It’s the photobooth of course! Amanda and I found a groupon for a photobooth. The groupon was perfect; it could be used during the time of our wedding, so we just had to get it. It was money well spent. Some people might think it’s too low brow. Well, I got something to tell you: You. Have. No. Idea. Weddings tend to have alcohol anyway, which can bring out the hidden comedian in anyone. Add a photobooth and put it near the bar? AWESOME!!! You’ll see pictures that will blow your mind. Uncle so-and-so there? Have your groomsmen/bridesmaids get him in the booth, I guarantee you’ll get some great photos of him. And I really recommend the props. It was extra money, but again, totally worth it. Ever see your Uncle so-and-so wearing a pink hat and a coconut bra? Well, I have an Uncle who wore them, and now I have proof. Did I mention it was AWESOME? Well it was. GET IT.” “There were many people offering us advice as we were going through the planning stages. After living through it, I can honestly say I don’t think I heard many bad pieces! Here are a few that I really lived by, plus a couple I wish had been told to me. When planning, pick a few things that are most important to you and focus on those. Let others help you with the rest! The day of the wedding savor everything – especially the food! Chances are you paid quite a bit for it and depending on how nervous you were before, or how much dancing you’ll do later, you’ll regret not enjoying your meal. Make sure you have someone keeping track of when everything is supposed to occur. Knowing what is involved and how long things will take, such as transportation, hair/makeup, pictures, etc. will hopefully prevent you from being late!”
Amanda and Michael – thank you both SO much for choosing us to document these wonderful wedding day memories for you! Thank you for making us feel like part of your families, like we absolutely belonged at your wedding – we are so grateful that we get to work with amazing people like you. Wishing you all the very best, always!! Much love, J + B :)